Tuesday, October 07, 2003
How do I even beginning to sum up the last week of my life? so much has happened in such little time, I have seen more in the last few days than I have in a lifetime. But alas, I digress. Let’s start from the beginning…
So we last left LondonChik with a lot of homework to do. The readings here have been terrible, we are talking 40-50 pages each week times 2 times 4 classes. Most of which I skim with disinterest. Our trip to the Docklands and Greenwich proved little excitment, but I did get to stand in two hemispheres at once in Greenwich on the prime meridian. The day trips are fun, but some of them just seem useless to me. But I cannot complain. Because I am in Europe. And it is wonderful.
The week flew by and before I knew it, my full-fledged American “I am never leaving the States…why would I ever need to leave?” boyfriend flew his red, white, and blue butt out here to jolly old England. Honestly, if you asked me last week, I would have told you I was as surprised as you that he, midwestern-loving boy that he is, would journey half way around the globe to visit me in London. But he got on a plane Wednesday morning, and we here by Wednesday night!
It was sooo wonderful to not only have Gordon* out here, but it was also cool to see someone experiencing a new culture for the first time. And culture-shocked he was. From the tube stopping in the middle of our journey home, to him smirking everytime he heard a British accent, it was so funny to see these things come out of him. We explored a little of London, finally venturing into the British Museum that I pass every day on the way to classes, and never fully appreciated…I went in and saw a lot of old rocks and stone, and history and stuff…it was culture, but not the kind of culture I was interested in…plus, why do you come to london anyway, if not for the fashion?
So I took Gordon* to H&M, my new favorite store that is very familiar with my bank account. There, I single-handedly turned my Tommy Hilfiger boy into the London lad he was meant to become…ok, slight exaggeration, but I did manage to get him a pair of London jeans…the men out here, they know how to wear their jeans! So with a bag full of Nick Lachey shirts and new jeans, we headed to Waterloo Station and hopped the Eurostar to Paris.
Yes, yes, I know y’all are jealous, I mean, when am I ever going to go to Paris with the man I am currently dating??
I know how lucky I am, dont even get me started. Plus, my roommates and company had already reamed me out the prior week…seems that people were already jealous of Gordon* and me before he even came out here, but now he was taking my butt to Paris??? I know, I am VERY lucky…:)
So…Paris. Ah. What to say about Paris? Well, for starters, we arrived near EuroDisney because it was cheaper to arrive at that train station than the one in Central Paris. One thing I have noticed about Europe, they love their mickey mouse. So after battling the whining kids on the train (and doing a little whining of my own), we headed to Central Paris. I would just like to thank my mother for her sense of direction, because, in the middle of a country that spoke jibberish, I found our hotel!
So thanks mom! It probably helped that Gordon* had a Frommer’s book as well…:) So we hike up to the fifth floor of this hotel and open the door…to discover the effiel tower outside our bedroom window! I know, I was freaking out too! Here I am, in Paris, with my boyfriend, whom I adore, staring at the Effiel Tower! Again, lucky stars lookin down on this girl.
Traveling in a country that doesnt speak the same language as you, where you are a minority, is the most intimidating thing I have ever done…almost equal to that of performing…at least in performing, I can fake it…here, I was terrified. Gordon* spoke a little French, which helped my self-confidence, because I made him ask for everything
By the end of the first night, our American self-esteems were pretty low, and we headed back defeated to our room…only to discover the Effiel Tower lit up in a cloudy night sky. It was a beautiful sight, something I will remember for years to come. When the computer in this stupid lab decides to upload my pictures, you will see how beautiful it was…although the pictures will never do it justice.
The next day, seeing as it was our only sightseeing day, we headed bright and early to the Arc de Triumpe. We walked. And Walked. stopped in a French street market to buy some unimpressive pain au chocolat, and some delicious framboise (raspberries). And then we walked some more. By the time we reached the Arc, I was ready to sit. So we sat and ate some crepes. They were good. Why is it I am always eating when I travel?
Then we took pictures at the Arc. And Gordon* had this WILD idea to CLIMB to the TOP of the ARC! Eh, you only live once though, right? So up and up and up we climbed these spiral staircases to nowhere, and finally got to the top. Mind you, my butt was hurting and all I wanted to do was sit down. But the top of the Arc, in my opinion, the BEST view of Paris by far! We took loads of pictures, some of which DIDNT come out! But it was all good.
We continued our sightseeing with more walking on a street that I still cant pronounce called Champs de Lyons (?) I have no idea. I dont speak French.
(Je ne parl pa franses.) I tried to shop, but shopping on a Saturday with thousands upon thousands of pushy people who speak French was not my idea of fun. We visited the Lovuve and saw my girl Mona Lisa, who in my opinion, has had her originality ruined by the reproductions that have bombarded my life since I was born. I was more impressed with the fact that I was in the Lovuve, seeing the Mona Lisa with Gordon*, in Paris, than I was with the picture itself. But I saw her, and I took pictures, that’s all that matters. I also saw the Venus de Milo, which was far more impressive. I like statues of marble
I felt like I couldnt fully appreciate half of the artwork in there becuase I didnt know the history behind it, and my attention span was far to short to take a tour. Plus the Euros were being spent on chocolate crepes…
Did I eat more than chocolate crepes? This I did, but dont talk to me about the French food. So far in Europe, not impressed with the food selection of France and England. I miss my Mac and Cheese, and Market Day. Oh, how I miss Market Day…my American boy and I ended up at McDonalds and a Chicago Pizza Factory…I know, I know, but what can you do when you crave American food? It’s so hard to eat out here, but I am coping…with my chocolate crepes and crossiants…:) So, but the end of the night, we were exhausted from walking everywhere. We must have walked 7 miles at least….the last morning in paris, we woke up to the best sight ever…a rainbow across the effiel tower! I, being of photographic sound, mind, and body, took pictures. It was one of the best pictures I took out there. God bless digital cameras. Seeing the effiel tower everyday made us want to climb it, and climb we did. We thought we were so cool, passing all the tourists waiting in line for the elevators to the top…not only were the stairs cheaper than the elevator, they didnt look that intimidating….my friends, I was wrong. Through the cold chilly wind, I bitched and moaned my way to the top (Gordon*, I dont know how you put up with me!) Got there, took pictures, took the Willy Wonka-vator to the top top of the tower, had vertigo on the way up (we were sooo high!), took more pictures, then walked my butt down those stairs again…let’s just say, the view from my hotel window was enough…:) But I did it! I walked the Effiel Tower. Which I will probably never do again…but I DID IT!
I was so excited to get back to London, as I think Gordon* was too, and for the first time, didnt feel so out of place here in London. Going to another country, with another language, made me appreciate my own culture more, and made me feel a part of a culture. It was a life lesson. I grew up a little with that trip. I might have even learned a few lessons too..about patience, understanding, and kindness. None of which had anything to do with Paris, and everything to do with Gordon*…can I dare say that we grew up a little more with each other? Two Americans in Paris…I feel like breaking out into song…
So after another London day of shopping and sightseeing, it was time to say goodbye to the boy. And I miss him already. But I was so excited that he came. So, Gordon*, thanks for the best weekend of my life! I hope you had fun and an eye-opening experience, and, even though I know you will never venture out into international waters again, I hope I somewhat opened your eyes up to another culture…y’know, beyond Vegas?
Having Gordon here also reminded me of how much I love home…how much I really do miss Chicago, and how much Chicago really is my only home. It makes me think about the future, where I want to go, what I want to do, becuase the more and more I think about it, the more Chicago sounds like the place for me. Wouldnt it be funny, all the traveling I have done, from Miami to LA to London, and end up back where I started? We shall see, but that is another chapter of my life waiting to unfold.
So now I have another task at hand…school work. Blah. and I hate it. I really do. I learn so much more from traveling and talking to other people, and hanging out, that I tend to put school on the backburner. I just think that after five years of studying, why would I want to study when I could be out learning on my own? I am planning another trip to Paris with USC, as well as Barcelona (Marlene…get out here!), and Italy is thrown in there somewhere. I HAVE to go to Italy, its been a dream of mine since I took Italian!
But I am trying to justify all this school work with my real-life experiences, and I just cant understand it at all! Why study when you could be out doing?? Maybe my mentality is skewed, but I am having way more fun outside the classroom than inside…but dont think your money is going to waste, mom. They are pumping me with knowledge like you wouldnt believe. One thing I know when I graduate Annenberg, I will have definitly earned that degree! And with that, I must go study…:)
Pictures are too come, once the computer stops being tempremental…keep the emails coming…care packages too?
Love and cheers from LondonChik
*More than five times…count them yourself. And as cheesy as it sounds, you know, we will always have Paris…:) L&Fs, Stef